fighting

i believe that fighting makes you weak, mentaly that is. if you cant resolve things threw descution or some other non violent means (physical or verbal), then you are, in fact, weak. now defending your self, others, an ideaology, or a country on the other hand i find acceptable. but there comes a point where the defender can become the agresser. people much more important than i am get to make the call on that most of the time. if that point is crossed, if you are no longer protecting but now causing the same problems that you had just faced, i believe that you are wrong in doing so.